NEW DELHI:
Chitra Ravichandran
was in the Intensive Care Unit (ICU) of a hospital in Chennai, drifting in and out of consciousness, when she saw her son
Ravichandran Ashwin
by her bedside.
In her weak voice, filled with concern, she asked Ashwin, "What made you come?"
Hours after achieving the milestone of becoming only the second Indian bowler, after Anil Kumble, to secure 500 Test wickets,
Ashwin
hurried back to his home in Chennai during the third Test against England in Rajkot.
He had received the distressing news that his mother had been hospitalized following a blackout and his immediate priority was to be by her side.
"When I landed and got to the hospital, my mom was slipping in and out of consciousness, and the first thing she asked me was, 'Why did you come?' The next time she was conscious, she said, "I think you should go back because the Test match is happening," Ashwin told 'ESPNCricinfo' on the eve of his 100th Test.
The off-spinner emotionally recalled how his parents Ravichandran and Chitra worked their "backsides off" to help him realise their collective cricketing dream.
"The entire family is built on cricket and to facilitate my career. It hasn't been easy. It has been very hard on them. It's been a big roller-coaster for them - going through the emotions and ups and downs that I myself do," the 37-year-old said.
Ashwin, at times, did feel that the sport meant more to his family than him.
"I am in the second half of my thirties and my dad still watches a game like he would watch my first international game. It means a lot to them. Compared to what it means to them, it definitely means less to me.
"They have eliminated anything that comes in the way of my cricket. That has been the sole purpose of their lives ever since I can remember," he said.
Ashwin's father is an avid cricket-watcher and the former club cricketer is present even at the most nondescript grounds to watch TNCA first division league.
"It was as if I was living the dream my dad wanted to achieve. Imagine somebody wanted to become a cricketer (but doesn't). He gets married, he has a son.
"And he wants to live the dream through his son, and he does everything from teaching me, to taking notes from my classmates, to taking me to private tuitions to make sure I play the maximum possible amount of cricket while still finishing my education.
"And this lady (mother) coming from some other hamlet says, 'I support you because you couldn't become a cricketer. Let's support our son to become a cricketer. Let's work our backsides off'. And the father-in-law supports it, and then the sister-in-law supports it."
(With inputs from PTI)
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