No matter how calm, cool, and confident we might be, sooner or later, we all find ourselves in pretty awkward situations. We're definitely not alone in our embarrassment!
Video creator and TikTok star Benjamin Tiffen, aka @tiffytoky, has been going viral with his incredibly relatable ‘things I find embarrassing for no reason’ series. It’s these little embarrassing moments that unite us and prove that we have more in common than we might think. We’re featuring some of the creator’s most fun real-life insights to share with you, Pandas. Scroll down to check them out!
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Benjamin Tiffen's 'things I find embarrassing for no reason’ series has gone viral on TikTok, and it's incredibly relatable
Image credits: tiffytoky
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Waiting a few extra mins to leave the bench to not hurt the person's feelingsImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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When you think someone's speaking to you but they're on the phoneImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Tryna avoid eye contact at the dentistImage credits: tiffytoky
Benjamin has a very large following on the internet. On TikTok alone, a whopping 2.3 million internet users follow his account, where he posts entertaining content very frequently. Another 174k people follow him on Instagram.
The TikToker’s ‘things I find embarrassing for no reason’ videos have been a wild success. These clips have gotten millions of views.
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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When you're trying not to yawn during a conversationImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Small talk with an old man having no idea what they're sayingImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Holding the door for someone and realising they're too far awayImage credits: tiffytoky
Benjamin manages to hone in on some incredibly relatable moments in his videos. Most of us have been in the slightly awkward situations he describes, which is why we enjoy the videos so much. That, in turn, makes us want to share them with our family, friends, and colleagues.
Relatability is a vital part of internet content. Without it, you’re relying on pure luck to go viral. However, if you know your audience very well (and post consistently!), you can stand out from the crowd on TikTok and social media by appealing to their personal experiences.
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Working out in your room and your parent comes inImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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That long awkward walk when meeting your friendImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Talking to yourself but someone seesImage credits: tiffytoky
When it comes to dealing with our sense of embarrassment, the healthy thing to do is to feel whatever we feel. That’s far easier said than done, though! Embracing the heck out of our emotions, however uncomfortable they might be, is a skill like any other. We get better at doing it with practice!
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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When the self checkout errors and one of the workers come to helpImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Accidentally touching the driving instructors knee instead of the gear stickImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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When someone gets your name wrongImage credits: tiffytoky
The more we embrace our feelings instead of running away from them, the better we become at resolving awkward and embarrassing situations in the future. Not only that but by acknowledging our embarrassment and/or mistakes, we prevent them from turning into shame further down the line.
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Waking up first at a sleep overImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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When you're the only one clapping in the crowd for a momentImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Walking back from the sea on the beachImage credits: tiffytoky
However, some of our experiences and memories continue to torment us even years later, despite our best efforts to come to terms with them. In these cases, it can really help us if we think about how those situations might have improved us. In short, we want to reframe the narrative. Perhaps by embarrassing ourselves in public, we learned an important lesson or became more emotionally resilient. Or we learned something new about ourselves or even managed to connect to other people despite all the emotional fallout.
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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When you're mid-conversation and the waiter clears the tableImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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When gum falls out your mouth while talkingImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Getting compliments from peopleImage credits: tiffytoky
The reality is that we tend to focus too much on our personal failures and embarrassment. We believe that everyone in our social circle must be thinking about all the times we messed up. The fact is that most other people are worrying about what others think of them, just like us. In short, all of us are hyper-focused on our own embarrassment. That’s a freeing thought!
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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That first hour before you and your cousins warm up to each otherImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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That awkward silence when your both tryna end the callYou can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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When everyone is waiting for you to finish packing your shopping at the storeYou can try breathing techniques and meditation to get over some of your more embarrassing moments. However, at certain points, it becomes almost necessary to reach out to a professional for help. The rule of thumb here is that you should go see a therapist if your embarrassment or shame is affecting your daily life.
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Going for a toilet at a friends houseYou can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Thinking you're kicking the table leg but realising it's someone's legImage credits: tiffytoky
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Getting reclined at the dentistFor example, if you find yourself sleeping poorly, having difficulty concentrating, avoiding meeting up with other people, and always being in a bad mood, you might want to consider seeing a mental health specialist. They can help you unpack and reframe your experiences so that you can live with more confidence. There’s nothing like an outside perspective to provide some additional clarity.
You can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Wearing a brand new outfit in public and u start to overthinkYou can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Talking to someone with a wog eye and you're not sure which eye to look atYou can watch one of Benjamin's viral videos in full right over here
@tiffytoky Comment fr if u relate #tiffytoky #fyp #relatable #embarrassing ♬ original sound - Benjamin TiffenMany TikTok users loved his clips. Here's how they reacted to the series
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Walking with a massive school projectAcknowledging your embarrassment can actually work in your favor, too! Especially if you’re in a leadership position. It’s a way for you to be seen as more human and down-to-earth by the people around you. Harvard Business Review notes that people tend to be quite compassionate and nonjudgmental. They’ll relate to you more if you’re humble and take responsibility for your mistakes.
But the key here is to make your mistakes not look like a big deal. Everyone makes mistakes. There’s no need for excessive self-flagellation.
Which of Benjamin's insights did you relate to the most, dear Pandas? How do you tend to behave in embarrassing and awkward situations? If you have a moment, feel free to share your thoughts in the comments.